Let’s Talk!

Let’s talk!

As you know I have the Big C!  Well, let me tell you it really sucks!

I have been trying my hardest to show the world how strong of a woman I am and that this stupid deadly disease I have will not slow me down! Right?!

“Let go” by St. Johns for having Cancer so I began Carolyn’s Crafts (501c).. while still trying to take care of my family (and having to be place on SSI)

So, I begin my Day at 8am in a really good mood at the Oncologist Office!

IMG_20190513_091140.jpg Getting the Radioactive Contrast!

 The Waiting!!!


 Then the Pet Scan!!

I was finally done at 11:30am and ready to head home!!


I am not really great due to the radioactive contrast and all I want to do is relax. Just like a lot of people I get on-line, look at my e-mails, Facebook  and then I looked at my WordPress site.

Now, I am mad. I have 389 comments and a lot of them are Rude Comments about my cancer!

I am glad that I have my site set up to where all my comments come to my SPAM folder instead of just letting them embed into my webpage!

I just want to say to all the people that wrote me those Rude comments!

1st: Yes, I do have Cancer! and if you even really bothered to even read my Book or look at my Video/Slide Show instead of just taking it upon yourself to judge me by calling me a: “Faker”, “Lier”,  “Pretender”, “Trying to Get Attention”, etc…You would actually know how long I have been fighting this Battle and then you would not have said these hateful, hurtful things to me!

2nd: If you want to know how I am doing, Just ask! Don’t assume. But since a lot of you have made stupid comments regarding this issue, here is your answer!

I am tired all the time!

I am always in pain (from head to toe) the medications the doctors have me take do not work really well.

I still have a hard time looking at myself in the mirror! I see how the cancer has changed my body and I hate it!! I have had tons of surgeries and the last ones where on my scalp, ear and neck!


3rd: Instead of asking where my contact information is…. Look for it…. it is there, I promise! Top of the web page! Also the Bottom of the web Page!

But just for those that need it again!

e-mail: cmcalico@cox.net

Mailing: P.O. Box 56, Glenpool Oklahoma 74033

Business Hrs: 9am –  4pm

Go Fund Me:

Donation Page with Cancer Video

Donation Letter Request

RSS (Bottom of Home Web page)

Trauma Caused my Cancer

Event Page

All these Links can be used for making Donations,  Purchases, etc.


Lastly, Thank you to everyone that left the kind, beautiful comments.They made my day. Especially this one:


Today, I went to the beach front with my kids.
I found a sea shell and gave it to my 4 year old daughter and
said “You can hear the ocean if you put this to your ear.” She placed the shell to her
ear and screamed. There was a hermit crab inside and it pinched her ear.
She never wants to go back! LoL I know this is entirely
off topic but I had to tell someone!


This comment made me smile, I can just imagine the little girl and her reaction.. I just wish there was a picture with the comment.

I hope everyone has a Beautiful Day!

Remember Losing is Not an Option!!



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